Regular thoughts and incidents from the life of Jeff Boman, a writer, artist and website designer with a strange lifepath.

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Friday, August 25, 2000

I got very sad news yesterday: that a friend to my entire family, Lorretta Rodman, passed away this week. Even more upsetting, we wouldn't even know about it if my uncle (who sells caskets) hadn't been making a delivery to the same funeral home they were holding her services.

Lorretta was good friends with my grandparents on my mother's side; I never knew them, because they died in a car accident in the 1950s. Lorretta was our only link to them.

Lorretta introduced my Aunt to her later husband (something I'm sometimes not so sure was a blessing... but I digress.). When I was first diagnosed with MS, Lorretta suggested to one of her nephews, a fellow-sufferer, to call me. Lorretta herself called me often to get both our spirits up.

Her later years weren't pleasant: she had cancer, and due to her ailing health could no longer leave her home to do anything. I don't remember ever seeing her, but she told me her health had changed her dramatically.

I feel both sad and bad at her passing (not that death isn't an inevitable part of life); sad, because she was so alone for a long time, and probably died alone, with no one she loved nearby. Bad, because she always wanted to meet with me, and that never happened.

Good-bye Lorretta. Wherever you are now, if there is some form of an Afterlife, know that you did touch my life and many others... and that I'll never forget you.

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